Some of the guys had on bikini bathing trunks and some speedos and some boxer bathing trunks. It was a very friendly pool party and many of the men were playing games in the pool and frolicking around with the others at the party.
Based on what I have described do people who identify as gay males know enough to assume it is a gay pool party? Or is it necessary to ask two males holding hands and kissing if they identify as gay to assume they are both gay males? There were no women at the party.Īfter a couple of hours all of the people had paired off and were having drinks and holding hands and such.
The pool party was thrown by a lady boy bar. All of the Thai males there were lady boys.
The most noticeable difference was men with long hair and men with short hair. If I did have sex with a woman would I then be bisexual? I've never wanted to have sex with a woman. The question was would you consider two males holding hands and kissing, gay? Only men with long hair and men with short hair. That depends on what part of the world I'm in. Straight men holding hands happens all over the world. I have a Thai friend who frequently holds my hand when I go to visit him. Now would I become bisexual if I had sex with a woman? If you didn't know that I was gay and you saw me having sex with the woman would I be straight? Neither he, his wife and kids nor I think he's gay. If you go to a pool party and see two guys holding hands and kissing are they gay? Maybe the third time is a charm so I’ll try again. Not just holding hands, I never said that. Just a simple question for men who identify as gay. If you go to a pool party and see two guys holding hands and kissing would you assume they are they gay? If I saw two guys holding hands and kissing I'd assume they were gay. If I saw two ladyboys holding hands and kissing I'm not quite sure what I'd assume as the only direct experience I have of ladyboys is with Bambina, a poster on Thaivisa. If you called her a guy she'd rip your nuts off. If I had sex with a woman would I now be bisexual? If you saw me having sex with a woman and didn't know that I'm gay would I be straight? Edited Augby endure I've shown you mine - now you show me yours. Is this the challenge Jingthing threw out in another thread to open another thread discussing the alleged sexual orientation of "gay-looking" or "gay-acting" men" based on pre-1970's stereotypes?įor the record, I never said anything of the kind. I am growing tired of these imaginary charges so it's time I defend myself. So there you have it – the main differences between a twink and a pup for gay men.Putting stalking types on ignore apparently doesn't always shut them up, time to respond to the blatant distortions. After they’ve been out awhile and been exposed to dating, apps, bars, hookups, etc – they then graduate to another classification. Remember, the defining trait for a pup is their newness to the gay world. Pups can also have body hair or be smooth. Pups can be of all body types, including slender and muscular or roundish and heavy (not the same as a gay cub). Many pups are newbies to our gay world, just taking their first few steps of self-discovery as part of coming out. In gay-speak, “pups” are fairly young (18-early 20’s) with the defining feature of having almost zero experience in the gay universe. That’s a twink subtype in case you didn’t know.įYI: Technically speaking, twinks can also be pups but they aren’t exactly the same. You see, if a twink is referred to as having pretty features, they are referred to as a glamour twink. Many gay men mistakenly think of “Twinks” as pretty but that would be incorrect. There really isn’t a universally agreed upon construct here. A new documentary is under production after filmmaker Geoff Story made a unique discovery at an estate sale in St. Twinks are often thought of as smooth but they can also have body hair. Usually, they are in their 20’s and have boyish features. Example twink TWINK DEFINEDįor the most part, a twink is a guy who has a slender build. While I don’t pretend to be an expert, I will give you the basics of what I found out. Hey, you have to have something to talk about when you’re checking out the meat at the bar, right?Īfter we all went home that night – empty handed I might add – I started to do some research on twinks and pups.
His bit of insight then led to an hour long conversation about the larger topic of gay twinks and pups – plus a few other labels thrown in for good measure – like wolves and otters.